Strive for Excellence not Perfection

Many people try to grow their online presence —trying to build something unique. Yet they tell stories that everybody has heard before. You could share your story. Tell what happens in your life. It’s hard to do, so maybe — you think there is no story to tell. You have nothing interesting to share. Or you think that it’s scary. You don’t want to tell your story to nobody. I understand all that. But here’s the question:Why did you start? What made you want to start this business in the first…

Most kids don’t remember what you did. They do remember that you were there. Life is hard today. We have many priorities pulling on us. We have many responsibilities pulling us away from our family. Today most couples need to both get jobs. The pay in the jobs went down and financing requires both incomes to make a living. When I was growing up, I was fortunate enough for my dad to have a job that would allow us to live with one income only. My mother could stay at home.Focus all her…

Simon Sinek became known for the idea: “Start with why.” All of a sudden, we were talking about purpose. The question of why started for many the search of reason and purpose. Our why was the starting point for our mission. I love talking about why and your life’s purpose. However, I find that why is not the best place to start. When Frodo took the ring, he acted — not because of purpose, but because of position. He was already in possession of the ring, and he had to do something to help his…

Hey Reader, I know making money is important. You need to make money to run your business. Many people have said it before me: Don’t just do something for the money. Do it for helping the people.Do it for the bigger picture.Do it for the fun.Do it for the curiosity. But don’t do it for the money. Time and time again I observe men starting a business.They heard that Real Estate, eCommerce or Online Courses is where the money is made.Then they get started. Until they quit. I’ve seen it time and…

Our to-do list feels endless. There are so many things we could do. Some are more important than others. I recently listened to a podcast. They were chatting about this one guy being paid a lot to be an advisor. Yet he didn’t do much. He said that his job was not to add to the tasks in the business, but to make sure they didn’t do anything that hindered the business profits. I have also experienced the same thing. The real difference between success and failure is to do the right things and…

Hey Reader, The advice to follow your passion has been talked about for many years. Recently, everybody started to talk about Ikigai. It’s a Japanese concept with four sections. The idea is to help you narrow down what you should do. It evaluates whether you’re good at it, whether others demand it, the market, and whether you have passion for it. All good things. There is one challenge though. On paper, it makes everything sound good. When I started out, I talked about fatherhood—because it’s…